[alinutza]

Err Wrote:Not trying to pick sides here, but why do you feel the attacker should be the one to try to resolve things? Why couldn't the other player mail the attacker and try to rectify the situation? Interested to hear your reasoning behind that.

I said that the attacker should try and fix it, because all the trouble and talking drek starts from people that will not apologizes even if you say you would burn down their house. If the one being attacked tries to solve the issue and the attacker doesn't want to, then that's another story.

if the attacker really wants to stop it, wants to stop the whining and so one, he will do what he can to stop it. That is my point of view. If the attacker continues to use his strength, even if the bully stops his actions, then the attacker is not that good as he wants other to think he is. I also believe that you should act, even in a game, according to your values. I am not saying not to mug people of virtual cash or other similar things. i just want to point out that even good people like show off and feel superior over others. i would say more, but i feel that being sincere will put me in hospital and i want to enjoy my few gym trains during the exams period.

Everyone(almost) wants to look like some kind of angels, good people, in the forum. they are those who think that discussing your problems via mail is whining. You know who you are!!!